Al B. a no show at son’s 16th Bday

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Al B Sure initially agreed to attend the event, but he backed out at the last minute. Al claimed that he felt “disrespected” by the event because of its original theme – “Stuntin’ Like My Daddy.” According to Al, he was Quincy’s father – and Diddy, by allowing the event to be themed that way, was encroaching on his territory.

Ater being told that Al B Sure was upset with the theme that Quincy chose, Diddy changed the theme. He hoped that the new theme of the event, ‘Quincy’s Stunna 16 Party,’ would get Al B Sure to change his mind, and come out to the event.

“[Diddy and Kim] spent millions of dollars making the event a Stuntin’ Like My Daddy party. It wasn’t easy to re-theme the party, but [Diddy] made sure that we did it.”

And once the theme was officially changed, Diddy reached out personally to Al B Sure and asked him to attend. A person close to the Combs family said, “[Diddy] all but begged [Al B Sure] to come out to the event. He knew how much it would mean for Quincy to have his father there. But [Al] wouldn’t budge.”

According to family insider, Diddy’s not the problem. “Diddy hasn’t done anything to keep Quincy away from his father. In fact, he encourages their relationship.” Our insider continued, “What is [Diddy] supposed to do. He loves Quincy as if he were his own son. … You may be able to say a lot of bad things about [Diddy], but you can’t say anything about the kind of father he is to those boys.”

The other woman speaks Kim vs. Sarah

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Sarah Chapman, Diddy’s other Baby Mama and one of the reasons Kim finally left Diddy, responded to Kim Porter’s interview in Essence in an exclusive interview with Sandra Rose.

This is nutz!!!! What about diseases????? These women have no shame! And to continuously bring kids into this situation is insane. J. Lo is not a saint but I bet she is glad to be out of this mess because Diddy prolly was dealing with her while he was with J. Lo!!!! And no matter what Kim says DIDDY was in love with J. Lo. Anyways here is Sarah’s sqwak…..

On Kim’s Assertion That She Didn’t Know About Sarah:

“There’s so much more to the story than that. She definitely knows who I am. Yes, it’s true, we’ve had words. [Kim] knew about my pregnancy prior to her getting pregnant. In fact, Kim and I met [Sean] at the same time.”

On Diddy Offering Her A Million Dollars In Hush Money:

“There’s been rumors out there that [Sean Combs] offered me a million dollars to not have the baby, said Sarah. “If he gave me a million dollars I wouldn’t be calling him every month for child support,” she joked. “I mean, he pays me on a monthly basis, but there’s rumors that he offered me a million dollars hush money.”

On Her Longterm Relationship With Diddy:

“He and I are friends, we’ve always been friends. I’ve known him for a long time – 13 years exactly. Sarah adding that they dated “on and off” over those years. “I know it sounds very cliché, but we really are friends. It’s never been a situation where I’m trying to step on top of [Kim] or I’m trying to be in her position.”

On Kim Mentioning Her In The Essence Interview:

“She threw my name in that shit,” said Sarah, raising her voice slightly. Regarding Kim’s revelation that Kim didn’t speak to Sean about Sarah’s baby until after her twins were born, Sarah said, “the scary part is that any woman can be with a man and not even mention to him ‘oh, I heard you got another woman pregnant’ – that’s really scary. For the longest time she never mentioned my pregnancy to him. She kept it a secret to herself so it wouldn’t take the shine off of her,” said Sarah. “I thought [Sean] was lying, but he said Kim never mentioned my pregnancy to him.”

On Wanting To Be Heard:

“I don’t have a voice. I don’t have a forum to speak about my child. He has the forum. I’m not a superstar, he’s the superstar. He’s the person that should be out there acknowledging his child. I’m going on with my daily life and raising my child. We do what we do. We go to Sesame Street and the zoo,” said Sarah.

“Now that she’s lured me out, let me paint the picture. I don’t want anyone else to paint the picture. Let me have a say so,” she said. “I need to have a voice. I want to be heard.

sources: Sandra Rose and Bossip

Kim’s talking again….

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Kim dishes with Essence.com on why she left Diddy. Looking really silly after she said all that crap about J. Lo. Here is a snippet….

ESSENCE: You left the relationship in a very dramatic way. I understand you waited until Sean was out of town and then you packed up the house. You took the cars, the nursery furniture, the kitchen table, everything. Why did it go down like that?

KIM PORTER: Because there was no other way. You think he would have let me walk out the door? He wouldn’t have wanted me to go.

ESSENCE: Were you scared?

KIM PORTER: No! Not at all. But I wanted to be dramatic. I wanted him to know I wasn’t breaking up with him for two weeks-or maybe leaving for two days. If I pack up everything — twins and all — it means I’m out! Puffy’s an action person, not a talk person. So I had to have an action. Telling him, “Babe, I’m leaving…” was not gonna do it.

ESSENCE: Did your girlfriends come over to help?

KIM PORTER: I did have my little party-packing crew, yes, I did! My friends are very supportive.

ESSENCE: After our last article (“No Ordinary Love”, Essence, December, 2006), some readers responded by saying Sean was disrespecting you by not getting married. They said you should be trying to get that ring on your finger.

KIM PORTER: Do you know how many rings I have? I don’t even have enough fingers (laughing). That’s not why I left.

ESSENCE: So if he called you today and said, “I want to get married, right now….”?

KIM PORTER: I would say “No.” And not because I don’t want to get married, but because he’s not ready to get married. When I get married, I want to stay married. I want both parties to be on the same page at the same time, and to leave a certain type of behavior behind. That’s a commitment I don’t think he’s ready for.

ESSENCE: If it wasn’t over the marriage, then why did you end the relationship?

KIM PORTER: I left because at this point in my life I want something different for myself. I invested ten years, I have children, and I’ve always stood by him. But now it’s time for me and what I want to do for Kim.

ESSENCE: How have you two been getting along since you left?

KIM PORTER: You know how when two people go their separate ways, most of the time there’s animosity? It’s not like that with us. Sean and I have this bond, this friendship. It’s not about ‘if you’re faithful to me, if I’m being faithful to you.’ We’re friends. I’m the person he can tell his inner most thoughts to and he’s that person for me. He still calls me everyday and we talk. There’s no ill feeling or ‘I can’t stand you, I hate you, don’t call.’ There’s none of that. We have three children together so that’s just not an option. We’re committed to our children even if we couldn’t commit to each other.

ESSENCE: Speaking of being faithful, there have been rumors about Sean and a baby in Atlanta swirling around for a while. Is this why you left the relationship?

KIM PORTER: Hmmm… Well, that definitely was part of it.

Her statement stands in direct conflict with the singer’s clarification months ago that the claims that he had fathered a child with an Atlanta woman were baseless.

It is said that Combs did not want Porter to know about the other pregnancy while she herself was pregnant with the couple’s twins, and that is why he paid the other mother a million dollars in hush money.

Porter’s comment on the speculations seems to be a confirmation of the same.